The "Friendzone"

As embarrassing as it is to admit, it seems that I can't win when it comes to women. It seems that I'm always "that guy" - you know, that they can talk to without any implications that the given relationship will become deeper or more emotionally invested. I suppose, at first, this was vexing to say the least. After all, it seems that all pretty girls tend to be taken and they almost always pick a guy that sends them down a downward spiral of hurt and misery. And I know I can be a better partner, if I can be given that chance. Of course, I'm always denied that opportunity and hence, I'm stuck in the "Friendzone." Though, as I'm now starting to understand, being in the "Friendzone" has its interesting perks. For instance, I see my girl friends in a different perspective when I cease to pursue them. I learn more about them: their victories, their defeats; their struggles; their highest hopes and deepest despairs. It's quite sobering at times, for I can see how strong, weak, humble, prideful, selfish and compassionate a friend can be that perhaps would have gone unappreciated if the nature of our relationship had been different. At the end of the day, I'm left with their stories that are touching, revolting, grandeur, quaint, and so much more. These stories revolve around a heart so brittle, so strong, that I, as their sole witness to it all, am left in further frustration...If I had been given that one opportunity, perhaps these hearts may have been spared much unnecessary heartbreaks and one-night stands, but instead be given further victories and much needed reassurance to it all...